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    By Janaina Gimael

    The Secretaria de Assistência Social (Social Assistance Department), an organ from the
    Brazilian social security service, estimates that there are 200,000 Brazilian children
    waiting to be adopted. The majority are not white and are boys. This is the opposite
    profile wished for by Brazilians who, in general, want white baby girls. Until recently
    the only hope for these children was to be adopted by a foreigner. Today many institutions
    are encouraging all kinds of adoption and in particular, the more difficult ones.

    Most of the kids waiting in line to be adopted were born by chance. Due to many
    reasons, their parents, who in many cases are just a mother with no support from her
    boyfriend or husband, abandoned them. At this moment, they are waiting for a new family to
    rebuild or even build a sense of familiar union. The first scene a visitor sees when he
    visits an orphanage, temporary shelter or another kind of social institution is
    unforgettable. Not only are there very small babies, but also children who are almost
    teenagers and have contradictory behaviors.

    They stay around the visitor, apparently waiting for any kind of attention. Some of
    them ask for a kiss or a hug. They seem to consider each caring gesture as a sign that
    they might go away with the visitor. On the other hand, there are children who keep their
    distance. It seems that their small eyes are carrying such suffering that they do not have
    hope that someone will come to help them. Suddenly, one of the oldest asks: "Do you
    have a home?" It is hard to know exactly what to say, even knowing that they already
    know the answer.

    To understand the process of adoption in Brazil and its consequences, it is necessary
    to remember that we are talking about a country that is a champion in social inequalities
    and where thousands of people do not have access to the bare minimum for survival. The act
    of abandoning a child has in its roots a serious economic problem, which goes together
    with no official policy of teaching about the importance of the family.

    This is a very old problem, which has been plaguing the country since the eighteenth
    century. In 1726, the state of Bahia started a practice known as roda dos expostos
    (wheel of the exposed ones). This procedure, which started in some European countries in
    the 17th century, was designed to protect the abandoned babies from dangers
    like pigs and dogs, which used to live on the streets in those times. It was a contraption
    installed on the external wall of some buildings where the mothers could leave the babies
    they could not take care of. There was a hole inside the wheel where the child was put
    into.

    Nurses and sisters would take the children and place them in some social institution.
    Since 1825 the Santa Casa de Misericórdia, a charity institution created in 1498 by Queen
    Leonor de Lancastre, in Lisbon, Portugal, and exported to Brazil, took over the care of
    such Rodas, which had a bell so the policeman on duty could take the child to a safe
    place. The first Santa Casa in Brazil was opened in Olinda, Pernambuco, in 1539. There are
    close to 500 of these institutions around the country today and they still care for the
    poor children.

    Nowadays, children are left in every kind of place. Even inside public bathrooms and
    garbage cans. And what happens to these kids? When a story of abandonment is told in the
    media many couples show interest in adopting the baby. In most cases, however, nobody
    knows when a child is abandoned and to complicate matters when a baby is abandoned and its
    family disappears, the legal process of adoption tends to be very slow. It is necessary to
    get approval from the natural parents to formalize the adoption and there is a lot of
    bureaucracy involved in the whole process.

    The first step to adopt a Brazilian child is to file an application with the Vara da
    Infância e da Juventude (Child and Youth Court) where the interested person will be
    interviewed. In Brazil, anyone who is at least 21 years old can adopt, as long as there is
    a difference of at least 16 years of age between this person and the child. Gay couples
    cannot adopt children legally in the country. The discussion about the theme is frequent
    but the complexity of the question indicates that the issue will not be settled soon.

    Until 1988 an adopted child in Brazil did not have the same legal rights as a natural
    one. But this situation began to change with the adoption of the 1988 constitution, which
    established that natural or adopted children have exactly the same rights. Since July
    1990, children in the country have better legal protection through the Estatuto da
    Criança e do Adolescente ( Child and Adolescent Statute).

    The international adoption process is similar to the national one. The foreign citizen
    must file an application with the Comissão Estadual Judiciária de Adoção Internacional
    (International Adoption Judiciary State Commission). There is no restriction on age, civil
    status or religion to file a petition. The process of adoption, which includes medical and
    psychiatric exams, can take from one to six months. There are no fees charged by the
    courts for prospective parents, but procedures among different judges vary widely. The
    costs associated with the process are smaller than in other countries and have to do with
    travel expenses, document translations and legal fees. Once the request is approved, the
    foreigner can apply to adopt the chosen child at the Vara da Infância e da Juventude.
    Final approval is made by local, state and federal courts around the country and not by a
    centralized authority. There are always many children waiting to be adopted and the wait
    period to take the child home is a short one.

    In theory anyone, Brazilian or not, over 21 may adopt a child, but often judges prefer
    Brazilians over foreigners and some states also give preference to Brazilian citizens
    despite the questionable legality of such arrangements. There is no adoption by proxy in
    the country and prospective parents need to go pick up their new children.

    Who can be adopted? According to the law, children whose parents have died, kids who
    were abandoned or whose single mothers relinquished their parental rights. Also children
    taken out of their homes by the courts due to mistreatment by their parents or guardian.

    While the courts in the states of Santa Catarina, São Paulo, Paraná and Pernambuco
    are known to be more lenient towards foreigners, the same is not true in the states of Rio
    de Janeiro or Rio Grande do Sul. Since 1993 Pernambuco has a centralized list of parental
    candidates, which is maintained by Ceja (Comissão Estadual Judiciária de
    Adoção—State Judiciary Commission for Adoption).

    Foreigners need to reside with a prospective adoptive child under the age of two for at
    least 15 days and for a minimum of 30 days with those older than two before they are
    allowed to take a child overseas. Children will not be allowed out of the country without
    presenting a written authorization by both parents or by a Family Court judge in the case
    of an orphan or abandoned child.

    Stories

    We had a chance to meet Mary and Joseph Peterson (the names of parents and children
    cited in this article were changed in order to preserve the interviewees identities), an
    English couple. Their first contact with Brazil came with the arrival of a Brazilian
    student in their home. Ana went to England to study English and became a friend of the
    family. When she came back to Brazil they decided to visit her and also to adopt a
    Brazilian child, something they were planning for some time.

    With Ana and her mother’s help, Mary and Joseph, who could not have babies, adopted a
    very pretty girl named Susan. Everything was done through the legal process and the
    Brazilian-English citizen, who is a teenager today, has already come back to Brazil and
    loves it very much.

    Sometimes the adoption process occurs in a different way as in the story between
    Luísa, 47, and Juliana, 7. In this case it began when the girl was in her mother’s belly.
    Luísa is single and always wanted to have a child. One day, a woman who worked in her
    home as a maid, told her that she was pregnant but could not have the baby. Luísa decided
    to give her support so the woman would carry on with the pregnancy. At the end, the
    natural mother went away, letting her adopt the baby. Luísa registered the child as her
    own daughter.

    Juliana does not know the entire story though. She thinks her natural mother is in
    heaven, looking after her. "I don’t want another mother", she says, "I just
    want the mother who is here with me". Luísa says that Juliana had some small
    physical problems when she was a newborn baby. "We had some problems because she was
    not breast-fed. She suffered from terrible colic and used to cry a lot". Since
    Luísa’s family is Italian, Juliana grew up speaking Portuguese and Italian. The girl even
    has Italian citizenship. "All that she knows is that I love her very much",
    concludes Luísa.

    It’s not uncommon for Luísa and Juliana to have to struggle against prejudice. It is
    undeniable that mother and daughter are very different physically. While Luísa is blond
    with blue eyes, Juliana is tawny as most Brazilian children available for adoption are.
    But this doesn’t seem to worry them.

    "Adopting is an act of love, which involves responsibility and conscience that,
    when someone assumes a child born from other parents, this person is assuming a real son
    or daughter," says Maria Angelina Spada, a sociologist and the mother of an adopted
    child.

    Some institutions work helping people who are interested in adopting. They can supply
    information about this issue and offer support. It can be useful to be in contact with
    some of them. It is important to check the fitness of each one, as well. Many illegal
    cases of adoption, mainly the international ones, are caused by institutions that are not
    honest. You have to be careful when the whole process of adopting is very easy and quick.

    In a few cases the children offered have families who want them. An infamous case about
    adopted children has to do the Mães de Jundiaí (Mothers of Jundiaí), about 34 women
    from the interior of São Paulo whose children were taken overseas to be adopted without
    their parents permission. Judge Luiz Beethoven Giffoni Ferreira, who authorized the
    adoptions, was informed that the children were victims of mistreatment but nothing was
    proved. Some of the children were never heard from before being sent to other countries.
    This has stirred a nationwide debate and is not an isolated case.

    On the Net

    The adoption process can be done through the Internet. One such place is Limiar (http://www.limiar.org ) based in the United States. The
    site presents short profiles of Brazilian children waiting for an adoptive home. Rafael
    & Ana Priscila are presented as "handsome Latin-appearing brother and sister, 7
    & 8, healthy, in school, loving, communicative, who likes to play." There is also
    Romonier, a "biracial boy of 4 years with kinky, blonde hair. Romonier has
    arthrogryposis affecting his legs and feet and lazy eye. Much vitality and joie de vivre.
    Adores any and all attention, loves to somersault and show how fast he can move along the
    ground. Needing surgery now but not possible in Brazil for many years to come."

    Limiar presents itself as having placed over 900 Brazilian children with adopted
    parents since 1981 and as an organization that seeks no contact with the biological family
    of the child, but only with the Brazilian courts. They promise to provide prospective
    adoptive parents with a photo, measurements, social history, medical information, and a
    video clip of the child.

    This process can be costly though. It includes a $5500 donation ($8000 for siblings),
    $100 for an application, $750 for document translation and $500 for registration. Besides,
    there are also expenses with home study, authentication of documents, airfare, hotel and
    food, visas, the child’s passports and medical examination. According to Limiar these
    costs will be considerably less than for most similar international adoption programs
    because no money goes to an orphanage, judge or lawyer.

    Janaina Gimael, 20, is Brazilian. She studies journalism and is the
    editor of Rascunho ( http://users.sti.com.br/jgam/index.html
        ), a Portuguese e-zine You can contact her by e-mail: jgam@sti.com.br

     CONTACTS

    Addresses of Institutions dealing with adoption as compiled by Projeto Criança (Child
    Project) from the Psychology Department of Universidade Federal do Paraná

    Associação Brasileira Terra dos Homens

    Rua General Polidoro, 183 sala 502 – 22290-000 – Rio de Janeiro, RJ; Tel/Fax: (021)
    275-3168; Caixa Postal 18092; 80811-970 Curitiba-PR; e-mail: abth@fst.com.br 

    Associação de Pais e Filhos Adotivos de Araçatuba – Apfa

    Rua do Fico, 420 – Santana – 16055-050 – Araçatuba, SP; Tel: (018) 622-3933

    Associação de Pais Adotivos de Campinas – Apa

    Headquarters: Rua Rafael da Rosa 187 – 13093-491 – Campinas, SP. Mailing address: Av.
    Princesa D’Oeste, 1295/152 –  13026-430 – Campinas, SP; Tel: (019) 872-2508 and
    874-4564

    Associação de Pais Adotivos de Campos

    Rua Teixeira de Freitas, 150 – Campos dos Goytacazes/RJ 28040-390

    Escola de Pais do Brasil

    Rua Bartira, 1094 – 05009 – São Paulo, SP; Tel: (041) 224-3036/(011) 3862-9508

    Grupo Adote

    Av. Calógeras, 1625 – 79004-000- Campo Grande, MS; Tel: (067) 383-5779

    Grupo de Apoio à Adoção de Campina Grande

    Rua Ricardo Wagner da Silva Paes, 200/1º; andar – 58109-110 – Campina Grande, PB; Tel:
    (083) 333-2004

    Grupo de Apoio à Adoção de Itapetininga – Gaadi

    Rua Campos Sales, 554 A, sobreloja – 18200-000 – Itapetininga, SP; Tel: (015) 271-9049;
    e-mail: gaadi@ebras.com.br 

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção de Joinville

    Caixa Postal 811 – Fórum Governador Ivo Silveira – Setor Serviço Social – 89201-972 –
    Joinville,  SC

    Grupo de Apoio à Adoção de Londrina

    Rua la Paz 49 – Parque Guanabara – 86050-080 – Londrina,  PR; Tel: (043) 329-9955
    and (043) 337-2505

    Grupo de Apoio à Adoção de Ribeirão Preto

    Rua Visconde de Inhaúma, 959,  14010-100,  Ribeirão Preto,  SP

    Grupo de Apoio à Adoção de Rio Claro

    Caixa Postal 470 – 13500-970 – Rio Claro,  SP; Tel: (0195) 24-6542 and 34-5165
     

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção de Barra Mansa – Aconchego

    Av. Domingos Marino 83, sala 906 – 27345-120 – Barra Mansa,  RJ; Tel: (0243)
    22-4921/22-6065; e-mail: nana.cristina@sidenet.com.br
     

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção do Acre

    Caixa Postal 1502 Rio Branco/AC – 69912-970; Tel: (068) 226-3661

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção de Florianópolis –  Geaaf

    Largo São Sebastião, 88 sl 21 – 88015-560 – Florianópolis,  SC; Tel: (048)
    233-3677/223-6320 –  Home page: http://www.portadig.com.br/geaaf
      – e-mail: geaaf@portadig.com.br 

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção de Porto Velho

    Av. Feliz Cidade, 968 Nacional – 78903-400 – Porto Velho,  RO

    Grupo de Estudos e Apoio à Adoção de Recife –  Gead Recife

    Rua Pio IX, 384 –  Torre – 50710-260- Recife,  PE; Tel: (081) 441-2083 and
    963-3911; e-mail: schettin@elogica.com.br
     

    Grupo de Incentivo e Apoio à Adoção da Região de Ourinhos

    Rua Gastão Vidigal, 476 – 19900-000 – Ourinhos-SP; Tel: (014) 322-4206 and 322-2406;
    e-mail: santiago@ourinhos.com.br 

    Grupo de Pais Adotivos de João Pessoa

    Caixa Postal 5121 – 58051-970 João Pessoa,  PB; Tel: (083) 235-2342

    Mães do Coração

    Rua Francisco Polito, 332 –  Vila Prudente –  03137-010,  São Paulo,
      SP; Tel: (011) 278-5759

    Projeto Acalanto

    Rua Ferdinando Rutini, 359 – 05143-240 – São Paulo,  SP; Tel: (011) 835-4002

    Projeto Acalanto de Natal –  Pan

    Rua Jornalista Djair Dantas, 1382 – Lagoa Seca – 59033-370; Tel:
    (084)221-5750/217-3192-Natal,  RN; e-mail: pan@digi.com.br
     

    Projeto Aconchego – Brasília

    Caixa Postal 4713 – 72401-970 – Gama,  DF; Tel: (061) 394-4102/394-5443 and
    974-6012

    Projeto Amor

    Av. Dr. D. T. Gallo, 27 – 1880-000 – Pirajuí/SP

    Projeto Criança

    Departamento de Psicologia da UFPR – Praça Santos Andrade, 5- Tel: (041) 310-2625 http://www.brasil.terravista.pt/Ipanema/2172
      E-mail: lidiaw@uol.com.br 

    Projeto Gerar

    Av. Rogério Weber, 2396 Porto Velho – RO; Tel:(069)224-1135/224-1085

    Projeto Monte Refúgio

    Caixa Postal 9090, São Paulo – SP – 01065-970 –  Tel: (011) 224-0605 and 468-6495
    and 224-4658

    Projeto Opção

    Av. São Francisco, 260 –  75110-810 –  Anápolis-GO; Tel: (062) 321-2198 and
    234-6741

    Projeto Recriar: Família e Adoção

    Rua Napoleão Lopes, 40 – ap. 11 – 80530-090 – Curitiba,  PR; Tel: (041) 252-5162

    Documents required:

    All foreign documents must be translated into Portuguese as well as certified
    and authenticated.

    Copy of marriage certificate for those married

    At least two letters of recommendation

    Power of attorney when using a lawyer

    An agency application with name of child when dealing with an agency

    Police clearance from the prospective parents’ town

    Passport-size photos of adopting parents

    Physician’s clearance

    Proof of economic condition

    Psychological and sociological home study done by accredited agency

    Copy of license of agency performing the study

    Copy of the country or state adoption laws

    Brazilian Embassy in the U.S.

    Consular Section

    3009 Whitehaven St. NW

    Washington, D.C. 20008

    Tel: (202) 745-2828

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